Restaurant etiquette: who pays?

Why is the dining experience so important between lovers? Simple, people often feel most comfortable sharing their lives over a bowl of pasta and a glass of wine. In addition to romance, couples can share a meal. So what about etiquette? Who pays? Who chooses the restaurant? Are coupons acceptable? In many instances, the date is structured around whoever is asking.

Unless both parties agree to go Dutch, whoever initiates the date should pay. And selecting the appropriate restaurant should always be a compromise. For instance, if one person is allergic to shellfish, then a date at the local seafood joint is out.

Regarding coupons, this depends on whom you ask. During my bachelor days, I never used coupons because I didn’t want my date to think I was cheap. But then your date might admire you for trying to stretch your dollars. Proceed with caution before using a coupon, which I don’t recommend on a first date. But if you go with the coupon, casually tell your date that you can spend the savings on her. Since every date is different, it’s best to use your best judgment and common sense.