Both authors of this book were involved in long term marriages which eventually ended in divorce. The Script is based on their experiences and input from other women who were married to cheaters. According to this book, there are always signs of a cheating man. Based on research, the authors discovered most men say and do the same predictable things when they prepare for their exit.
The road to divorce typically follows a bad straight to video movie. Here are some excerpts of the Acts and Scenes described:
Overture
Act I: Before He Leaves
Scene 2: “Wow, That Felt Good” (some other woman finds me special)
Scene 11: The expensive Gift (I am guilty, guilty, here’s a car to relieve my conscience)
Act II: After He Leaves
Scene 10: Going Public with the Mistress (meet my real soulmate)
Scene 14: It Happens All the Time (no big deal, lots of couples get divorced, just move on)
Finale:
Scene 1: This Is Not the Way I Planned It. (Uh Oh, reality sets in and the fantasy ends, my life is no better, I miss my old life.)
When a man cheats, he usually plans his exit before he actually leaves. He may leave because he thinks he found his soul mate or because he has changed and his wife hasn’t. Maybe some other woman is giving him compliments or is taking notice of him when his wife isn’t. She’s probably too busy washing his clothes or cooking his dinner to notice.
He may choose to enter fantasy land by trying to do a juggling act and keep both his wife and a mistress.
He may eventually leave because he may get an ultimatum from his mistress to leave the wife that doesn’t “get him.” From that point, the game is nearly over. Either he leaves his wife or he stays with his mistress who he believes is his “soul mate.” He has a decision to make. The lives of others will be altered if he makes the wrong choice.
If he decides to leave, he may start hiding money or making large withdraws out of the joint bank account. These signs definitely mean he’s headed toward the exit sign.
Furthermore, look around the house for missing cups or pictures.After Romeo’s abrupt departure, he may find himself taking coffee cups or other small things from the ex-wife. He may try to keep a link to his past because he doesn’t totally “check out” of his former life. He may even offer to hang around the ex-wife if she still needs him.
The authors finish the book with a word of warning to cheating men:
Read this book and think about the devastation that will ensue after you “drop the bomb” on your family. The warning encourages serious considerations of a decision with many repercussions.
This book is worth a look and offers insight and early signs to look for if your man is a cheater.
The road to divorce typically follows a bad straight to video movie. Here are some excerpts of the Acts and Scenes described:
Overture
Act I: Before He Leaves
Scene 2: “Wow, That Felt Good” (some other woman finds me special)
Scene 11: The expensive Gift (I am guilty, guilty, here’s a car to relieve my conscience)
Act II: After He Leaves
Scene 10: Going Public with the Mistress (meet my real soulmate)
Scene 14: It Happens All the Time (no big deal, lots of couples get divorced, just move on)
Finale:
Scene 1: This Is Not the Way I Planned It. (Uh Oh, reality sets in and the fantasy ends, my life is no better, I miss my old life.)
When a man cheats, he usually plans his exit before he actually leaves. He may leave because he thinks he found his soul mate or because he has changed and his wife hasn’t. Maybe some other woman is giving him compliments or is taking notice of him when his wife isn’t. She’s probably too busy washing his clothes or cooking his dinner to notice.
He may choose to enter fantasy land by trying to do a juggling act and keep both his wife and a mistress.
He may eventually leave because he may get an ultimatum from his mistress to leave the wife that doesn’t “get him.” From that point, the game is nearly over. Either he leaves his wife or he stays with his mistress who he believes is his “soul mate.” He has a decision to make. The lives of others will be altered if he makes the wrong choice.
If he decides to leave, he may start hiding money or making large withdraws out of the joint bank account. These signs definitely mean he’s headed toward the exit sign.
Furthermore, look around the house for missing cups or pictures.After Romeo’s abrupt departure, he may find himself taking coffee cups or other small things from the ex-wife. He may try to keep a link to his past because he doesn’t totally “check out” of his former life. He may even offer to hang around the ex-wife if she still needs him.
The authors finish the book with a word of warning to cheating men:
Read this book and think about the devastation that will ensue after you “drop the bomb” on your family. The warning encourages serious considerations of a decision with many repercussions.
This book is worth a look and offers insight and early signs to look for if your man is a cheater.
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